I wrote in The Allure of Nymphets that nymphets do not want to be treated like children and they do not want ephebophiles to act like children. For example, in the film Margaret (2011), high school student Lisa (Anna Paquin) went to visit Mr. Aaron (Matt Damon), her high school teacher, at his Manhattan sublet to get advice, because she, "... didn't have anyone else to talk to." However, Mr. Aaron became distraught after Lisa performed oral sex on him, but Lisa was unsympathetic. She said, “Don’t worry. I’m not going to tell anybody. If that’s what you’re worried about. I totally initiated the whole thing. Anyway it’s just sex. You’re acting like a little kid. I’ll see you in [high] school.” The portrayal of Lisa as a sexually aggressive high school student is an accurate one; thus, Mr. Aaron should have been just as aggressive in rejecting her advances.
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